Relationship Dynamics
A map, not a verdict.
A structured reflection tool for understanding what a dynamic is asking of you. Built on the same frameworks as the rest of the program. No labels required. No conclusions issued.
Solo mode
Your map. Your clarity.
Privately map a dynamic you are in. The other person does not participate and does not know this is happening. You do not need their involvement to understand what the dynamic is asking of you.
What you need right now
Your core needs in this dynamic, stated clearly.
What you are projecting
The assumptions you are carrying about the other person.
The gap between you
Where your needs and theirs are most misaligned.
The open question
One question The Guide leaves you with. No answer.
Takes about 10–15 minutes. Private to this device.
Shared mode requires two willing participants. Building this properly.
Shared mode
Two people. One map.
Both participants reflect independently. Neither sees the other's raw responses. The Guide produces a joint synthesis.
Person A completes their private assessment
Person B completes their private assessment
The Guide synthesis
What Person A needs right now
What Person B needs right now
Where you are meeting each other
Where you are missing each other
The open question
Raw responses are never visible to the other person. Person A receives the synthesis first and decides whether to share.
Neither mode tells you to stay or leave. Both modes produce a map — an honest picture of where you are, what you need, and where you and the other person are currently missing each other. The open question at the end is not decoration. It is designed to stay with you.